Barbara Jean Mills Sheets was born and raised in Jefferson City, Tennessee, as the eldest of four girls. In her early years, she was perceived as intelligent but reserved. She married her high school sweetheart and had three children. Barbara was actively involved in her small church, taking on various roles like usher, deaconess, Sunday school teacher and trustee. She also initiated and managed the children's Bible lessons and organized Christmas programs. Her love for Bible study led her to attend sessions in another church and other groups.

Apart from her church duties, Barbara was a dedicated bowler, participating in leagues for over 40 years and serving as an officer. Her commitment to serving others led her to run for office, and she served as a county commissioner in Jefferson County for more than two decades. Barbara prioritized her constituents, ensuring they were informed about programs and opportunities that could benefit them, even providing transportation when needed.

Known as the matriarch of her family, Barbara's generosity and resilien
..ce were evident to all who knew her. Despite battling cancer four times, including colon and pancreatic cancer, she maintained a positive attitude and continued her community service. Her determination to serve others, even during her health challenges, inspired those around her. Barbara's unwavering dedication to serving others was a testament to her mission in life, leaving behind a legacy for others to follow in her footsteps.